Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Time for Tips

Whoa. Last week has been really stressful. I've learned a lot. Really, a LOT. About myself, about relationships, about life.

Someone told me something pretty big. And of course, I got upset. But you know what? Despite the fact that it made me sad, there are a lot of good things that came out of it.

I realize what I was doing was affecting the people around me. I'll be honest, I had given up for a while (as noted in the overwhelming amount of negative and fluctuating posts) and I was tired. I mean I'm tired and stressed right now again, but that's besides the point. Life is an ongoing struggle. Hush, hush.

Anyways. Last week opened my eyes, and overall, this week... has been better.

Here are things I've learned this week:

  1. No matter how bleak things seem and how lonely you feel, there IS or WILL BE someone out there for you. They could be found in the unlikeliest of places or right under your nose.
  2. Bad things WILL happen. This is a given. But you get right back up again and hope for better days. It sucks, whatever. Don't continue being upset by it. What you're unhappy about, change. And what is unchangeable, work to make the best of it.
  3. Look and find lessons in everything.
  4. You are not perfect. Everyone has one flaw or two. Or many. But don't hate yourself for it. Don't put yourself down after making a mistake. For who has ever said "I learned so much" by being continuously successful? There is no room for improvement if you are already at the top.
Anyways... that's my not-so-random thoughts for now.

Your unconditional lover, Experienced Novice 

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